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3 qualities to look for in a health care proxy

On Behalf of | Jun 16, 2025 | Estate Planning |

It is important to appoint someone to make health care decisions on your behalf if you lose the ability to do so. Your health care agent will also, to the extent possible, and in compliance with the law and medical practice and ethics, ensure doctors follow your wishes. Thus, this is one of the most vital appointments to make when estate planning.

Below are three qualities to look for in a healthcare agent:

1. Trustworthy

You should appoint someone you trust to serve as your health care agent. This is because the decisions they are required to make will be sensitive, and, in some cases, will be life-and-death decisions. You should trust that your chosen party will follow your wishes and make decisions that are in your best interest.

2. Quick in making decisions

A trustworthy loved one who is skilled in making quick decisions, especially in emergencies, can be a great health care agent. You want an agent who can make decisions as they are presented with information by your health care providers. Someone who understands your values in-depth might be in a better position to make decisions easily because they can quickly tell what’s right for you.

3. Comfortable speaking up for you

Choose a health care agent who is comfortable asking doctors and other involved parties questions to understand situations better. They should be able to hold difficult conversations and to make informed decisions. A loved one who always avoids “stepping on people’s toes” may not be the best agent. 

Additionally, your agent should be comfortable advocating for your wishes. They should be able to communicate your wishes effectively, even if they differ from what your medical providers and family want.

Choosing a reliable health care agent is integral to being confident that your wishes will be protected. Learn more to appoint the most suitable party.